Nothing is more difficult for you than approaching a man at a party. On the net, behind a screen, it is much less inhibiting. And it is anonymous. You can really be yourself without worrying about the “do you say what do”. It is also you who decide the pace at which you want to move forward and through the various stages that separate you from “real life” (mail, phone, chat, go …)
The term “all” only two or three! If you work in a women-only work environment (or at home) sites will be a great help because if not, at this rate, if you wait to cross “by chance” a seductive and above all available man, you’re still single in ten years!
If you get out of a long history that has undermined you or you do not have much experience, you will need to regain confidence in you. In this case, dating sites are a good way to “get your foot in the door” (re) learn how to seduce, to spend time with your love life, to make it a priority. Like a child learning to walk, you will fall, will make progress, will experience new situations. You will also learn to confront you with the other to yourself. Beautiful grounds “games” where you may not be immediately meet the man who will upset your heart, but a “transitional” lovers that will help you to mature your lover project