Escorts offer a unique service. They provide companionship, conversation, sexual pleasure, and even a ‘girlfriend experience’ if that is what you are willing to pay for. What they don’t offer is love, but a good escort will do everything in her power to make you feel loved and desired, because it is in their interest to encourage you to return as a repeat customer. So what happens if you fall in love with an escort?
Men use escorts for many reasons. Some men want companionship when away from home, or an attractive date for a work function. Other men just want to do away with the uncertainty of picking up dates in a bar and not knowing if sex is an option at the end of the night.
Escorts offer safe sex and companionship. They work to your rules, so as long as you have agreed up front about what is expected from the relationship, it is a safe environment to explore your desires and spend enjoyable time with an attractive companion. Since you are able to choose a massage Montreal based on photos and a profile, there is no danger of ending up with a lady who isn’t interested in sex or you don’t find attractive.
Unfortunately, however, whilst booking an escort is primarily a practical decision for many men, some men do develop an emotional attachment to a particular escort and end up falling in love.
Love is a wonderful thing, but only if both parties feel the same way. It is no fun at all if you are suffering from a bad case of unrequited love, so the first thing you need to do is be honest about your feelings.
Talk to the lady in question and explain that you are developing an emotional attachment for her. Find out if she feels the same – she might not, so be prepared for this. If she does feel the same way, you need to talk about what happens next.
Many women who work as escorts do so because they need the money. In time, they become used to a certain level of income and to lose that will be difficult for them. Unless you are willing to financially subsidise your new girlfriend’s lifestyle, accept that she may not be willing or able to give up her life as an escort.
Some men are OK with their girlfriend seeing other men for sex. If you are not the jealous type and you love her unconditionally, then it will probably work out, but if you can’t stand the thought of her sleeping with other men, think very carefully before you get into a relationship with an escort.
Never allow your emotions to cloud your judgement. Some unscrupulous women will use your emotional attachment to extract cash from you. Always be realistic: if there is a big age gap or you are batting way out of your league, look for a more appropriate girlfriend.