My name is Linda and I have two children one boy and one girl…. My marriage is 25 years old so my kids are in early twenties. I was 19 years old when get married and my husband was 25 years old. My relatives thought I was young enough to get married and could not handle the responsibility of married life but I didn’t want to waste my life and energy for fake boyfriends so I choose a person sincere and loving to get marry so that I can enjoy life and maintain healthy relationship. When I got married my husband just joined his job and I was studying. I started doing job and study. After one year we planned a baby and we were blessed with a baby boy. We both were so happy to have that little angel that we started thinking seriously about our relationship. Our income was less so we planned to make a budget which includes some saving. After having child we started thinking as parents. We resolved our matters with calm and cool mind and did not threat over each other. Our main preference became our son and by that time we thought the importance of our parents than we became more loving and caring towards them also. When my child became 2 years we planned one more child because my husband got promotion and I completed my education. This time we got a baby girl, the perfect family. We were busy in growing them up when our children were about 10 years old we both realized that we have become just parents and avoiding our marital life. Then I read many articles about how to keep alive marital life and started practicing those tips. My husband became my teenager boyfriend again and simultaneously a responsible father of my children. Due to low budget we did not plan a long trip but we used to go on small one day trips with family to enjoy the company of each other. I started helping my children in their studies and so that they became near to me. We planned everything about their future needs. We cut down our needs to maintain their life standard. In my 25 years of marital life I don’t think we both fought on money. We handle our needs accordingly. When my children started schools I started job again to help my husband in expenses. My husband also helped me in home chores. We were living a happy life suddenly a twist came in our life , my husband was grabbed by a girl named Sarah, she seduced my husband and he appealed towards him but luckily they did not have sex and I came to know. I had two options, one to make a noise and fight other to solve the problem calmly. I choose the second option. I asked my husband what he needs a perfect family or just sex with girlfriends. He felt ashamed and left that bitch forever. Now my kids are in university and they appreciate our efforts to maintain a happy relationship.