When a woman gets married, the most important thing is her relationship with in-laws. Remember that man loves his blood relation and you cannot win his love without having healthy relationship with his family members. The most important personality in In- Laws is Sister in Law.
Before your marriage your husband used to share funny and happy moments with her sister and she used to be important figure in your in laws. When you come in the home don’t try to take all importance but try to maintain the good relationship with her. Making healthy relationships with sister –in – law is also in your favour as you will get a friend at home.
Here are some tips for newly wed ladies.
If your Sister-in Law has any differences, don’t over react it and don’t be aggressive. Stay peaceful and talk to her politely. It will tell her that you don’t want to fight and want a peaceful experience.
It is the best key of any relationship , if you feel something wrong in her attitude, discuss it with your husband as he knows her sister better than you and if he tells you the background of her attitude make him sure that you will talk to her and will resolve the problem. In this way you will win your husband’s confidence and also your sister –in-law will start believing you.
If your sister in law is of your age or teen ager, make her your friend. Sharing of cloths. Jewellery and talking about different topics will bring you both near to each other. Try to share your things with her so that she gets confidence and will share her things to you. In this way you will get a best friend at home and she will love you.
Don’t try to impose your friendship on her, if she needs a distance from you , maintain that distance and don’t try to be intimate to her.
If your sister in law lives with you , you have more chance to be friend of her . go shopping or for outing with her. When you go outside with your husband take her also with you , it will make her happy.
You don’t have so much good friendship with her that you ask about her affairs so straightforwardly, avoid this. First be her best friend and when she will tell you about her affairs it means you have won her confidence but don’t use this in negative way. Main thing is to be positive in attitude.
Gifting is the good way to impress other. Present some occasional or un occasional gifts to her.
Always try to wish her in time, plant some surprise party for her birthday. It will make her happy.