In this article, we will talk about what makes a man attractive. Especially since we will also try to see what makes it stand out from other men. I have gathered these tips in one article because learning to stand out from others, if done right, helps make a man attractive.
Well, let’s go right back to the point. So, what makes a man attractive and allows him to stand out from others?
A neat but not effeminate look
Many guys think that having a good look means being neat, hyper-trendy, even effeminate. I do not believe that’s true: I advise you to stay virile. Also, despite what some experts say, you can be sexy with a shirt for 20€, no need to buy clothes for 5000€!
When I was younger, I was cautious about my look and was asked several times if I was gay. There is no harm in being homosexual, except that my thing is girls, so it did not help me to be considered a potential lover.
I must say that it’s all good: it works better with women, it costs me less, and I take myself less the head.
Be careful that does not mean you have to do anything or combine any materials and colors – the fashion tips from Masculin.com will help you with that. But it just means that it does not help much to do too much at that level.
To help you find your style, I refer you to an article listing the different male styles that girls like. If the subject interests you, you can discover here the impact of clothing on women.
I explain the principle briefly: you will agree that we are often seduced by stereotypes of women (the sexy librarian, the sexy nurse, the babysitter, or the actress X). You must know that Similarly, there are male looks that embody feminine fantasies (mafia, surfer, latin lover, rocker, working boy). If you manage to combine one or more of these sexy styles, you may be perceived as more attractive.
A virile attitude: body language, touch, sexy humor
More than the look, what will seduce women is your attitude. This is what you will release.
How to have a sexy attitude? First of all, you have to work on your body language (the famous body language). You have to be (or at least seem) relaxed and confident.
Feel free to be touch with women. Many scientific studies have proved that touching a woman makes you more likable and attractive to her.
Finally, there is a form of humor that makes men more attractive. I often speak of sexy alpha humor to designate it. Sometimes it’s going to be teasing; sometimes it’s going to be “challenging” with women.
I had already developed these three themes that are touch, sexy alpha humor, and body language on an article about the basic techniques needed to seduce a woman. Do not hesitate to read it to deepen the question!
The peacocking is the technique of seduction of the peacock. As the animal seduces with its beautiful colored tail, this theory is based on the principle that the man must dress in a very remarkable way to attract.
Basically, according to this assumption, you would need clothes and accessories to seduce. But this theory comes from the United States, and I noticed that it is not very effective in UK. I think it does not fit with our state of mind.
I do not advise you to dress like someone extravagant. And even less as a magician (the pick-up artist Mystery, who is at the origin of this theory, was passionate about magic) if you are not a magician.
On the other hand, you can opt for more subtle but remarkable details. A small example: Julien Doré would he have won the New Star if he had not marked the spirits by wearing a bar (manly enough)? Why did not we forget the “real false tooth of white shark made of resin” from Brice de Nice?
Without falling into these extremes that would still be rather badly seen or, at least, challenging to assume if you do not belong to an artists’ milieu, you can easily find a necklace or a bracelet that will attract the attention of girls, and you will stand out from the crowd.
That said, the most popular peacocking in France is the hat in a nightclub. Note that many guys do not practice at all peacocking because they are terrified, deep inside them, to be noticed, out of the rank. It is a bad state of mind, which unfortunately expresses a glaring lack of assurance.
If you have recognized yourself in this last paragraph, I invite you to think about this problem to improve your attraction capital. Moreover, it is often said, “do not be afraid to be different, be afraid to be like everyone else.”
I made you a little video about peacocking; I hope you’ll be interested. By the way, do not hesitate to take a look at my channel (Le Coin Seduction) and subscribe for seduction tips.
Self-confidence is something universally appealing. Showing trust is the basis for seduction because anyone with confidence will appear more seductive (do not confuse faith and boasting). But you have to know that nobody is 100% confident in all areas. So, relax!
The thing is, seduction and flirting, just daring to approach a woman shows that you are a confident man, and it makes you attractive. Men who watch women for two hours before finding the courage to talk to them lose points in the eyes of these same women.
As I told you above, you can display a confident attitude (right body language, tease women, etc.) without being confident. And it’s a start.
“True” trust will be obtained through experience and success. But to integrate the virtuous circle, you still have to launch one day!
Expertise in a field
Women love men who have some authority or expertise in a specific area. You do not have to become an expert at something extraordinary, but the fact that you are an expert in communication, accounting, do-it-yourself, or anything will raise your rating.
Sometimes the expertise comes with a title and the latter, again, will make you more attractive. If doctors are popular with women, it is not just because they are generally in an excellent financial position!
Be a leader in a field, a strong man who is capable of making decisions, and your capital attraction will soar!
The positive attitude
To seduce, nothing better than behaving like a caring and positive person!
It is well known that the positive attracts the positive and that the limiting beliefs are so called because they limit a spirit and therefore, a whole life.
By being open-minded, motivated, and determined, and always positive, you will communicate much better things and be more attractive!
Here is an example of a good positive mood with this quote from Nelson Mandela: “I never lose: either I win, or I learn.”
Good conversation topics
It is obvious, but to be attractive, it is also and especially not to be repulsive. It can be stinking, looking dirty, or because of your opinions. Thus, creating a conflict, even verbal, with a person on sensitive topics could eliminate you from the list of his sexual choices.
So, I advise you not to talk about sensitive topics like politics, religion and all that stuff when making contact with a woman (and, in general, not to show too much disagreement on these subjects before having slept with her).
Good conversation topics, on the other hand, can inflate your capital attraction. Feel free to talk about male/female relationships, talk about light issues in general, and not be afraid to talk about sex.
Have an excellent relationship with sex
Many men have a terrible relationship with sex. This is partly because they are very unsure of their abilities horizontally even if, to comfort themselves, they think themselves “in the middle” and claim from their friends to be gods in bed.
It is also because it is a sensitive subject, even taboo, on which the ordinary mortal sorely lacks information. And the little knowledge we have on the subject is perverted by porn, which puts more and more value practices that ordinary people do not practice (zoophilia, double-penetration, etc.).
I advise you to be as sincere and straightforward as possible regarding your relationship to sex. Accept the fact that your desires and impulses are natural! Once you have accepted yourself as a sexual being, learn to accept women as such.
Do not judge women for their relationship to sex, for their desires, for their sexual past. As told in The Truth (Uncomfortable) about Male / Female Relations, “Propose the ONLY thing she can not get from other guys.” A natural, fast, intense, passionate, non-judgmental leg-up.”
Note that to arrive at this mindset, you must also not (or no longer) be afraid of women.
Wearing a proper perfume will also help you seduce. Do you know what’s alluring in the smell of perfume? The smell of sex.
The designers put in the perfume some molecules that remind us unconsciously to the brain, through the sense of smell, what we smell after the sexual act. This explains in large part why pubs for perfumes are almost always scenes of seduction.
The best smell to seduce, and the one that will make you unique is your body odor mixed with a good perfume. It will make women feel that you are a very sexual person. But to be sexual is to attract women.
The fact that you have been “chosen” by one or more beautiful woman (s) is very aphrodisiac for other women.
It’s a way for them to quickly make sure you’re a right choice: why else would other beautiful women be interested in you? See this as a guarantee of quality, a guarantee.
It is a distortion of the principle of social proof, adapted to seduction. But social proof with other men also has a role to play in making you attractive. In a bar, for example, one seems more attractive in a group of friends that if one is leaning alone on the counter.
Someone of widespread, if it is not thanks to a role in the genre “jester of the king,” always seems more attractive. This means that other people find you interesting, have seen your qualities, which encourages women to take an interest in you afterward.
This is the same phenomenon as on YouTube: we are more likely to click on a video that has 500,000 views than one that has 200 views. It is generally said that if many people have been watching, it is good. But, if we think carefully, it does not mean much.
Being shortlisted by women is also a guarantee that you are not a starving person and that you are probably a good shot. Also, it is far more rewarding for a woman to be chosen from more than being a “default choice.”
Finally, I hope that my demonstration will have made you understand why we often say “Rah, shame, I feel that I am much more attractive when I’m in a relationship than when I’m alone.”
The context of the meeting
What is also important to remember is that the context in which you meet a woman will influence the value she will give you.
It is better that she sees you first in a situation or in a place that enhances you. Thus, it will integrate more quickly than you are a prize, and it will deserve you (at least as much as you deserve).
A woman needs to become attached to the world of a man to be seduced. Make it penetrate yours! Take her for a drink to a place that suits you a bit, where you are comfortable and where you seem (if possible) to know and be appreciated by the staff.
To go further, work so your home decor in addition to your look and your state of mind!
Mojo is a unique form of energy that gives you sex appeal. Sometimes, we do not know what we have, we release perfect things, we succeed in almost everything we do, and we attract women like a magnet.
The formula for having mojo, owned by Austin Powers, is very precious and as secret as that of Coca-Cola. Nevertheless, we have identified some elements that can help us have good mojo.
A good thing to become attractive is to want to conclude with women. It is therefore fashionable not to abuse masturbation to keep in itself a little sexual energy!
Surrounding yourself with motivated and positive buddies to flirt is also a way to have a good mojo because it seems to be something communicative!
Sports and healthy eating are other good ways to get in shape. Some music, some videos can give you a lot of motivation and give you this almost magical aura that attracts.
Some “program” to have mojo through NLP (neuro-linguistic programming) too. It’s something technical, so I’m just telling you for information. Concentrate on the elements I gave above.
Being a true man
The men who come to see me so that I coach them often tell me that they do not want to be depersonalized by learning seduction. They want to stay “themselves” and attract women. They do not want to become “odious assholes” to please women.
Fortunately, coaching in seduction is much closer to personal development than manipulation, and there is no question of depersonalizing or manipulating anyone. It’s about becoming a better yourself. There is a lot of benevolence (towards other men and women) in the community of seduction.
Indeed, you have to learn not to (or more) be a nice boy, but nothing prevents to be a nice boy. By learning to assert yourself and to be in contact with your true desires (like the desire to sex and seduce), you will become much more exact, much more authentic, and you will attract women while remaining yourself.
I would even say that one is more oneself when one assumes completely than when one tries to return “a beautiful, very smooth image” to please “society.”
I think that those who refuse to question themselves and make efforts to get out of it have almost no chance of escaping sexual misery. It is always the way of ease against that of work and personal investment. And at this level, it’s up to everyone to choose their side.
The ten mistakes not to commit to please women
To stand out and stay attractive, do not make the ten mistakes that I mentioned in my article on the plan ass.
As a reminder, the ten most common mistakes that make your meetings with women so messy are:
I hope you enjoyed this article and will help you!