Simply, because we have not the same modes, Since we were children boys and girls grow up in different worlds, they are taught different values, they are advised to behave in different ways … in short, it is quite logical that everyone got a bit lost .
You probably have friends who are not in this situation, rest assured, you will soon catch up. Understanding men is not an obscure science reserved for certain women, you will soon realize that men are not if complicated once one understands their operation.
You understand, men are not complicated, they are different. It is this difference that makes you sometimes have trouble understanding as to why they act in their own way and why they do not react to the signals you send them to yet blatantly to you. You are used to easily understand the women you meet, you will quickly notice that you are running relatively the same way for some things, you feel close to women: this is normal; you have more or less grown up with the same schema. You had shared models when you were a child, models that have given you some idea of how to interact with others, how to communicate.
With men, it’s different; they were raised, educated differently. Because even if we are in the twenty-first century, we must not close our eyes, there are still differences between men and women in education, and it is in part the differences found at the age adult. And yes, despite the efforts of units and others by men and women, the differences are reduced but still exist. One has only to look at catalogs and toy departments to check that. It is not so easily rid of societal traditions.
So yes, men and women are different, they work differently. So men think women are complicated and women think that men are complicated. Fortunately, over time we learned to recognize these differences persist and some more than others. Having realized this, you will see that men will become a much easier shot for you. You just have to identify what are the differences and see through them as if through water. Do not pack, it does not solve all the problems with men you meet. As you sometimes have little difficulty understanding with some women, you will always have with some men. Things would be too easy otherwise.
Put yourself in the shoes of a man
To better understand men, try to put yourself at times for them to see how they think, how they act, how they work. You go and identify the main differences that exists between them and women. Their actions thus become clear to you, as spring water. This will allow you for example to see how men are visual unlike women, but as yet they have more trouble than you identify emotions in others and signs of mood you thought yet clear . No no, when he tells you he does not know what he did to get you in this state is that it does not know.
You will also understand that the discussions do not have the same importance and that all is not interpreted or even to interpret. Often women attach great attention to the words, retain the words they liked, touched, and even more when it was not positive. But men do not place as much importance in the discussions; they sometimes say things without thinking of the consequences, especially when they have not understood that the discussion was of a very serious nature for you. These differences may foster misunderstandings and disputes. Having understood this you will know that you have to clarify, make men understand when you really want his attention to a specific topic. You also avoid saying things that hint that he has to read between the lines. This will help to make your relationships with men much less complicated.
Understanding all this will help you to free yourself from prejudices and stereotypes that make men you seem really complicated. If a man takes the time to know you are interested in you, ask you questions this is not necessarily a drag technique intended only to get you in bed It may just be because he wants to know you better, without a second thought and if he is interested, without immediately thinking only sex with you.
For men you seem less complicated and after understanding the differences that existed between them and you, you can simplify things, try to ensure that there is the least possible misunderstandings that things are clear and simple. This will prevent you spend days wondering why such a thing has not gone or why it does not happen like what you imagined. I understand men, you understand the differences that separated you, should allow you to make your simple relationships, to ensure that they spend as much as possible.
Having understood how men should also allow you to not to ask too many unnecessary questions, Is it because he looked the girl he loves you? Is it because he found no such thing you said he never listens to you and your relationship is for nothing more than a breakup? Is it because he is out with his friends to play basketball it is totally disinterested in your married life? No. He can look at a girl without wanting to jump on him; you’re probably the same with handsome men you meet. If he did not notice the subliminal message that you want to pass it may be simply because it was too understood that he understands.
Make your relationship with the simplest men to you seem less complicated also involves work on yourself. It’s not the men to fit you or you adapt to men, it’s a balance you have to find when you start a relationship. Men are not all the same, if there are opportunities for them to work in the same way for some things, it will not be the case for all. So do not hesitate to communicate clearly, things appear much simpler, you’ll see.